Ladies, if you’re in a hurry to lose the man you love you
need not try any further I have the perfect tips for you. Women need to
realise that relationships are not all about late night dates and
cuddling up in bed. It is work, hard work to keep a man. Sadly, women
tend to sabotage their relationships without knowing.
If you commit one of these relationship crimes, sister get ready to be single.
Put him down: What is love?
Love is respect. Okay, so you have all the swag, and he is a little
slow in getting the combination right, do you need to make a fuse about
it? You can teach him in privacy and with respect.
He might have
scruffy looking boxers and some annoying habits that may put you off
some times well what I would say is , if you can’t teach him, and you
can’t tolerate it please pack you bag and go, you would sure be creating
a good vacancy for another lady.
Drum about the future:
The last time I checked it is a man who proposes and not the woman,
however, today’s women seem to be driving the marriage and future car
faster than the men are. Hey, you do not need to push him for marriage;
because you may just be pushing him out of the relationship.
Unnecessary
pressure, especially about commitments, makes many men freak out.
Forget about the plans, just focus on making your relationship a good
one and trust me he will stay.
Get too busy: with
the aid of social media and technology, communication has been made
very easy. So it baffles me when women complain they are too busy to
keep in touch with their man. Hello, you go to the loo, you eat, you
sleep, if those are fundamental then your relationship is also as
fundamental.
My take is this, the moment a woman begins to
complain of being too busy then know she is getting ready to move on.
You do not expect him to keep calling, checking up on you while you are
being busy…
Make your relationship a public affair with your friends:
In a bid to flaunt your man, you might just be selling him out. Stop
blabbing about your man to your friends. Once a relationship is serious,
there are certain things you do not reveal to your closest friends. Why
would you tell your friends your boyfriend snores in bed or screams
when he comes?
You should not even tell how good or bad the sex is
– what happens behind closed doors, stays behind closed doors. Chit
chatting about your man could make him more appealing to a flirty friend
and trust me she would use to information you freely dished to get you
single again.
Keep assuming rather than asking: I am yet to
understand why women always assume the man should know. That a man is in
a relationship with you does not mean he was born with a brain track of
all your thoughts and desires. Women fume when they expect and do not
get and yet they do not ask.
Quit assuming, men are more rational
than emotional and might not notice those things you term sensitive
except you bring it to his notice. If he has not taken you on a date in a
while, ask; do not assume he is cheating. It puts a man off when you
bring up a fight over something he is not conscious of. Note. A lot of
assumptions would sure lead to disruptions.
Become a detective:
What is the point of making yourself the watchdog of your man? If he
needed a detective, I am sure he would have employed one. Checking on a
man’s phone log, text messages, and IMs is so uncalled for and
unnecessary. Remember that what you do not know cannot kill you.
Moreover, it suggests you are highly insecure. Trust me, become a
detective and you would soon be the culprit.
Starve him in bed:
If you want to be over with the man you are dating then get lousy in
bed. Most women tend to think that sex is a weapon to deal with a man.
What they need to know:
a man will move on if he is not satisfied with the sex or if you keep
making him beg for it. I would recommend you give him a great time, then
make your demands. Works like magic. In line, a woman is ideally the
romantic one and the man the pounding one, if you want to lose him, try
neglecting your romantic duties.
Become too demanding:
He is your lover not your money dispensing machine or your financial
problem solving institute. That he loves you does not mean you should
enslave him. A man appreciates a woman who is self-sufficient to an
extent.
Don’t get it wrong, I am not saying you can’t ask for some
things if you are sure it’s within his power, but demanding he meets
every of your primary needs is such a huge wrong.
Do not quit talking:
I personally find it unbearable when a woman talks too much. Men sure
do not like too much talking. It is cool to have a good conversation but
learn when to hit the breaks.
Generally, learning the art of
listening is something every woman must do. There must be a reason why
we have two ears and only one mouth. Cheat on him: When it comes to
cheating, ladies appear to be more forgiving, than most men. He finds
out you’re getting down with another guy? He’s most likely taking a
walk! Don’t expect that because our society is tolerant to cheating men,
you too can cut side shows.
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