This one is strictly for the guys…
One of the best things that can happen to any guy in a dead relationship, is to be able to walk away, with your head held high. Walking away without a guilty conscience.
I do not advise any guy to walk away from any relationship that, with a little nip and tuck, here and there, can become an envy of other couples. That said, some relationships need major surgery and transplant.
One thing that I can tell you for free that can make a guy walk away with his head held high is when he had not built the relationship on monetary foundations.
The biggest drawback in most cash based relationship is that fact that if it was not for the money, this "union" would not have happened in the first place. There is also that one friend somewhere that will every now and then say, 'I told you he was here for the money".
I do not advise any guy to walk away from any relationship that, with a little nip and tuck, here and there, can become an envy of other couples. That said, some relationships need major surgery and transplant.
One thing that I can tell you for free that can make a guy walk away with his head held high is when he had not built the relationship on monetary foundations.
The biggest drawback in most cash based relationship is that fact that if it was not for the money, this "union" would not have happened in the first place. There is also that one friend somewhere that will every now and then say, 'I told you he was here for the money".
So, I advise all guys, when you decide to love. Let it be pure love. If she has sef, don't let it define the relationship. Don't let her financial ability be the reason you are in it. In fact, if it looks like she has more, when in reality she doesn't keep it that way. You are even better protected with that kind of impression. Because, between you and the babe, you know who does what.
You will not know how hard it is to just walk away, till you realize how neck deep you are in receipt of favours, cash and all the other mede-mede. In fact, those Mede-Mede can BECLOUD your rational mind. I know a guy who had wacked Mede-Mede so much, his wife was having an affair with his boss, but, he thought about the car, the house, the clothes, the cash, accessories, the comfort...
Assistant boyfriend to baaaad!
Be free. Don't take. Don't let the Mede-Mede become the glue that holds your love together... Because if it does not work, parting ways can be just like separating things super glue has put together...
I know what I just said will not make sense to you, but to the one person, that is caught up in a Mede-Mede situation right NOW... It will make sense gaaaaaan
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